Law of Attraction

I get the basic concept, but what really are the key elements to the Law of Attraction?

If I had to choose a single crucial factor relating to our ability to attract what we want in life, it would be the presence of courage. At least that is so for most of us.

For those of us who have seen or read “The Secret” and had opportunity to work with the three basic steps...ASK...BELIEVE...and RECEIVE, it may be acutely within our awareness how difficult it can be to make our journey that simple.

What if I told you that we all have the ability to know, without knowing how we know? A woman knows things in her womb. A man has a “gut feeling”.
If we allow ourselves to trust that way of knowing and are willing to tell ourselves the truth about what “just is”, there is actually nothing standing between us and what we wish to attract. What courage it would take to see with that level of awareness!

Let’s take a closer look at those three basic steps.

Ask – Do you really “know” what you want? I once coached someone who wanted ten million dollars. He wrote himself a cheque, dated it and posted it on his door so he could see it every day. He worked through the three steps, as he understood them, and was frustrated that he could not manifest the money. I asked him why he wanted the money and it turned out that he really wanted freedom. What do you really want?

Believe – Do you have the courage to see through the filter of your past experiences enough to tell yourself the truth about what is possible? Can you see the true measure of your worth, at least some of the time? We are taught to see our limitations and often forget the times when we are able to stretch ourselves and create something greater. Can you believe that what you want can come to you in ways you were unable to imagine before?

Receive - Are you able to put aside what you are sure you know, in order to empty your cup and make room for a new possibility? What story needs to be rewritten in order for you to let go of what stands in your way?

It takes a lot of courage in our world to see how powerful we really are. It’s your journey...a blank page is before you...What happens next?

An Open Heart

I always end up in relationships that are going nowhere. Why is there no one out there for me!

You’re not alone. This is, perhaps, the most commonly asked question among those who have yet to find that special someone. You might begin by asking yourself these important questions:

What are you looking for?
Most people have no idea what they are looking for and, therefore, unintentionally end up in the same co-dependent patterns that haven’t worked for them in the past. Our prototype for relationship comes mostly from our primary image-makers (the mother/father figures in our lives). The more consciously aware we are of the patterns contained within that prototype and what does or doesn’t work for us, the more we are able to create co-empowered relationships.

The tell-tale sign of a co-dependent relationship is “need”. The more comfortable you are in your own skin, the less you need someone else to “complete” you or reinforce what you already believe.

Look at the common thread in all of your past relationships. What co-dependent patterns were continually reinforced? Where did those patterns originate? What needs to change?

What do you believe?
Let’s take a look at the statement, “There is no one out there for me.” This belief could be your greatest barrier. These are the words of someone who has stopped seeing opportunities to connect.

Our thoughts and beliefs are powerful tools that are used either consciously or unintentionally to create our present circumstances. If we believe that there is no suitable partner for us, we will see all opportunities for connection through the filter of judgment and create a self-fulfilling prophesy.

Fear-based beliefs create closed symbols that stop us from living life and actually limit our choices. In this case, connecting to others on an intimate level may have become a closed symbol for you. Tell yourself the truth about what you believe. You have not met everyone and, therefore, it is not possible to honestly say that there is no one out there for you.

We all hold some beliefs that are fear-based. Your belief may be acting as a buffer, protecting you from the possibility of feeling pain. This buffer also protects you from feeling love and finding what you’re looking for.

To open this closed symbol, it is necessary to risk opening your heart and feeling fully.

For more information on how to create healthy relationships, contact Leia Gamache at WhiteFire Coaching at 403.875.7594.

Affected by the Recession?

Have you been negatively affected by the recession? What are your beliefs about wealth? Do you feel limited in your ability to create the life you really want?

What if I told you that your ability to create wealth (regardless of what that means to you) is ultimately within your control? Even in a recession!

As children, we believe anything is possible - After all, the world really does revolve around us! Throughout the rest of our lives, we are surrounded with messages that limit our beliefs about abundance. Perhaps some of these statements are familiar to you...

"Dont be greedy! There isn't enough...!"

What we were really hearing was that the world is not abundant. This fear-based belief is deeply engrained in most of us and occupies our mind more often than we would like to admit. In fact, it is that same belief that created the recession in the first place! Energetically, it keeps us feeling separate and powerless.

The truth is, the universe is abundant and the only thing keeping us from having what we want is us!

Think about it for a moment. What would your life be like if you could quiet your mind? What if you believed you could create a life that really feeds you?

You CAN have...better relationships; greater abundance; increased vitality and an overall feeling of wellness!

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For information on The Law of Attraction, contact Leia at WhiteFire Coaching (403) 875-7594